High school can be an ongoing lesson in time management as students try new
activities and meet new people. They often juggle busy schedules and may want
to push schoolwork aside to do other things. But teens who get good grades
are more likely to choose to stay away from drugs.1 Monitor your child’s
activities—and how he schedules them—to help him achieve school
success.
In high school, teens make decisions about alcohol, tobacco, and illegal drugs.
Although most youth do not use drugs, in one survey, young people aged 12 to
17 named drugs as the most important problem they face—more than social
pressures, violence, crime, or any other issue.2 According to researchers,
teens who don’t receive good grades are more likely than their peers
to use alcohol, tobacco, or illegal drugs.3 On the other hand, teens who do
well in school are less likely to get involved with substance use.4
As their children become teens, parents sometimes feel that they no longer
have a vital role in their child’s schooling. But the truth is that your
guidance can help put your teen on the path to school success. When you are
involved, you’re also helping your child bond with you—another
protective factor when it comes to keeping your teen healthy and drug free.5 So, get involved with your teen’s education! You can—
- Take an active
role in helping him to set up a schedule and manage his time. Let him plan
for hanging out with his friends and going to fun school events,
but be sure that he also makes time for hitting the books. During busy times
when he has many exams and projects, help him keep up with his workload by
scheduling extra time for doing homework and getting enough rest.
- Take an
interest in what your teen is learning in school. Get updates on what happens
in class, keep up with his work, stay in contact with his teachers,
and attend back-to-school nights and parent-teacher conferences.
- Set clear
expectations for schoolwork and grades. Discuss with your teen what her goals
are and what you expect from her during the school year. When
your
teen does her homework, make sure that she sits at a desk or table in a well-lit
area that is free from distraction. Let her know that you are available to
help if she is having trouble.
- Be firm and consistent with rules. Talk with
your child about how he should behave both in and out of school. Clearly
define the rules and the consequences
of breaking the rules. Enforce the rules and consequences appropriately
and consistently.
There may be times when you and your teen need extra help. Your teen might
be working on subjects that are new to you, too. Work with the school and your
community to find support groups, skills development classes, peer tutors,
counselors, or teachers who can lend a hand. These resources can help you get
your teen on the track to school success.
Sources
Additional Resources
Arons, B.S. 1999. A preview of the new CMHS school violence prevention program.
Rockville, MD: Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration,
Center for Mental Health Services.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, Center for Substance
Abuse Prevention. 2000. NCAPTion 1: Training Guide. Rockville, MD: Center for
Substance Abuse Prevention.
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